Have you looked at the issues you are facing and "figured out what you need to do" without asking God for help? We have all done that at times. We have probably all thought that we had the right answer for the situation only to find out it was the wrong answer! What are we to do? We must pray and ask God for the answer. Sometimes we do not get a direct answer, but we receive perfect peace in our heart concerning what we had thought about doing. That peace is often God’s answer. We are not to trust our own understanding about a matter, but we are trust in the Lord with all our heart and not fret!